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Coffee & Conversation

The Valley is full of incredible people. This is your invitation to meet 10 of them over coffee and conversation. ☕

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$100 for 10 thoughtful matches.

275 locals, 22 people joined this month

The Neighbours

Locals who have joined theCommunity Experiment.

Bryce

Bryce.

Courtenay

Addictions treatment center counsellor (government-run, Whitehorse)

FromI'm from the island but was living in Whitehorse over the last decade. I ended up here by accident but I love it. I stayed for the proximity to ocean and mountain adventure settings.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Erin

Erin.

Courtenay

Business owner

FromComox Valley

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Uxia

Uxia.

Other

Fashion & Wellness

From'-Originally from Galicia (Celtic land in the northwest of Spain). -Moved here after living for 9 years in US (Colorado and California). -After the last horrible mass shooting in an elementary school in 2021, we decided to move to Canada near my (now ex) husband's family. We choose Comox Valley after exploring Vancouver Island for a while. -I thank the Universe everyday to living in a paradise, surrounded by kind people, and not being terrorized by sending my girl to school every day.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Liz

Liz.

Courtenay

I work in tech. Product Designer, I work from home

FromFrom Chile. I moved here from Vancouver looking to be closer to nature.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Leif

Leif.

Courtenay

Digital Marketing (business matchmaking)

FromVancouver... for babies and to buy a home.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Paul

Paul.

Courtenay

Software Developer

FromI was born here, left for about 20 years, and then moved back 4 years ago.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Faoiltiarna (Flo)

Faoiltiarna (Flo).

Cumberland

A Footcare practitioner (trained as a podiatrist but regulations don't allow me to call myself a pod)

FromFrom Ireland but was living in Vancouver for 4 years, during COVID we bought a sailboat and sailed around the Bahamas where we met someone from the Comox Valley who convinced us it was the best place to live

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Hayley

Hayley.

Courtenay

healthcare

FromVictoria - looking for a change of pace and to find community

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Sarah

Sarah.

Cumberland

Sweet Salvage Consignment

FromI came from Canmore and have been in the valley for 10 years

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Kris

Kris.

Courtenay

General Manager, Central Builders Supply Home Hardware

FromSt. John’s NL, recently divorced, but moved here after 20 years away to raise my two children, amicably co-parenting!

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Carly

Carly.

Courtenay

Nurse/Specialist Office Manager

FromI came to the Comox Valley from Nanaimo after being offered a better job.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Anastasia

Anastasia.

Courtenay

Pilot

FromMoved from the mainland about 4 years ago. My husband is military and got based in Comox so I moved over here.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Annie

Annie.

Courtenay

counselor/facilitator

FromQuadra/Cortes

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

John

John.

Courtenay

Choir director, university prof

FromEdmonton, choir music

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Arzeena

Arzeena.

Other

I run Amara Farm

FromRichmond - came to start a farm

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Sam

Sam.

Cumberland

Currently house painter

FromFrom the Cowichan Valley to be closer to the mountains

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Jay

Jay.

Courtenay

Social Equity and Climate

FromMany places in Canada and abroad, came to settle raise my kids somewhere with quick access to outdoor rec

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Kim

Kim.

Courtenay

Potter and Traveller

FromAB after traveling for a year- more is a story

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Alex

Alex.

Comox

Sales

FromI came to the Comox Valley in 2021 from Victoria with my wife and dog. I had just started a new job that was fully remote, and my wife and I had visited the Comox Valley and loved the pace of life, the nature, and the beauty up here. Victoria had become so busy and crowded and no longer fit our lifestyle.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Sarah

Sarah.

Courtenay

Teacher

FromNorthern BC. Wanted to get back to the island and be somewhere smaller than Victoria. I had never been to the Valley before.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Eve

Eve.

Other

Operations for Canadian Pacific Railroad for 20 years, moved to the Valley 19 years ago doing gardening work and retail

FromBuckley Bay

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Kathleen

Kathleen.

Courtenay

Masters Student

FromMoved here from Montreal and Costa Rica, back to island to be closer to friends and family

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Kenzie

Kenzie.

Cumberland

Yoga therapist and wellness clinic manager

FromJust felt a call visiting here 10 years ago that it was supposed to be home! Took the leap and never looked back, the intuition was right :)

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Troy

Troy.

Cumberland

Tutor, local politician.

FromThat’s a long story. Love the area.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Kluane

Kluane.

Cumberland

Conflict mediation, facilitation, restorative justice and non-profit management.

FromI lived all over after being raised in Victoria, was drawn here by the people, the arts and nature.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Josh

Josh.

Cumberland

AI for Market Research and for Wildlife Conservation

FromOriginally from Toronto, moved here from Panama, mostly for mountain biking & hiking (and to meet interesting people!)

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Ame-Lia

Ame-Lia.

Cumberland

Restorative Conflict Resolution and speaking

FromI wanted to be in a small community, in the mountains, immersed in nature

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Juniper

Juniper.

Courtenay

Registered Midwife / Comedian

FromNunavut / Ontario, wanted to return to living on the island and start a new chapter

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Pat

Pat.

Comox

Tech

FromI moved around a lot the past 20 years, but when I lived in Powell River I always enjoyed coming over to Comox. It's a really nice area, access to outdoor activities and bigger cities aren't crazy inaccessible either.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Michelle

Michelle.

Cumberland

Nature Educator, Early Childhood Educator. I own my own business

FromPort Hardy. The beautiful nature that surrounds and makes up this valley❤️

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Justin

Justin.

Cumberland

I work in recreation, helping people stay active in their communities

FromMoved from Victoria, came here for the outdoors and a different type of community

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Jen

Jen.

Courtenay

Emergency Services

FromRelocated to Courtenay from Edmonton, Alberta in June 2025, myself, my husband and our 2 dogs had a dream to move to the island and live by the ocean and old growth forests, and we made it happen.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Diane

Diane.

Other

Dog Boarding Business

FromCame from White Rock and Ottawa before that

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Renee

Renee.

Cumberland

Employment counselor

FromNYC. Then Cortes island. Wanted to be less remote and Cumberland had nature

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Sonia

Sonia.

Courtenay

teacher

FromCame from North Africa, mediterranneen place for immigration since 20 years.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Linleigh

Linleigh.

Courtenay

Student

FromI had moved here for my career

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Eric

Eric.

Other

In Transition

FromI moved here for love

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Vivian

Vivian.

Comox

Special Projects

FromMoved from Alberta to an Ecovillage in the lower mainland. Then to Comox from there.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Sarah

Sarah.

Courtenay

I’m a teacher at Lake Trail

FromCame from the Lower Mainland 10 years ago to escape the city. The Valley reminds me of North Van where I grew up.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Renee

Renee.

Cumberland

Entrepreneur, teacher, sea kayak and wilderness guide, yoga and meditation instructor, retreat facilitator

FromI am originally from Calgary. I lived in Victoria for most

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Emily

Emily.

Cumberland

Travel Advisor

FromI moved from Bowen Island where my family is based, but I lived in New Zealand longer term before that. I visited the valley for the first time on a bike trip when I was exploring places I might like to land more permanently. It ticked all the boxes with access to the outdoors, a vibrant community, and slower pace of life. I’ve been here for 1.5 years and loving it so far!

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Rachelle

Rachelle.

Cumberland

I left my career as a real estate appraiser a year and a half ago to study somatic therapy. I now sell art and am in the peocess of starting a somatic therapy practice

FromI am originally from northern Alberta but have lived in BC for 20 years and the Comox Valley for 10. I moved here for my previous career in real estate appraisal.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Ali

Ali.

Cumberland

Project Manager

FromMoved here a year and a half ago after spending the five previous years living in New Zealand. Came here to put roots down back in BC.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Kathleen

Kathleen.

Courtenay

Teach meditation

FromMontreal. Beauty - mountains and ocean

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Sandy

Sandy.

Cumberland

Thrift Store

FromI have lived in many places in BC the lower mainland, the Okanagan, various places on the Island as well as Prince Rupert just to name the main ones. What brought me back to the Island ? My love for the lifestyle and attitude of the Island as well as feeling a general fit.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Claudia

Claudia.

Courtenay

Many things! I am an Energy Intuitive and Soul Guide, but I also drive Taxi part time, make raw, organic chocolates and fairy light sculptures that I sell at markets

FromBavaria, Germany

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Bethany

Bethany.

Courtenay

I'm a trauma therapist/clinical counsellor

FromI've lived in a few places in BC but grew up in Kamloops. The special intersection of mountains, ocean, rivers and access to wilderness drew me here. The vibrant and friendly community is a bonus!

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Tracey

Tracey.

Comox

Social worker

FromFrom Red Deer Alberta. Closer to family and warmer climate

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Tammy

Tammy.

Courtenay

career counsellor

FromSlower lifestyle

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Marco

Marco.

Courtenay

Veterans Affairs Service Agent, previously BBC IT Manager in London

FromUnited Kingdom for work (Canadian but moved away 25 years ago)

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Niki

Niki.

Courtenay

entrepreneur in family law

FromVancouver- a better life for my kids, more nature, the ocean!

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Joyce

Joyce.

Comox

It project management

FromVancouver. Have visited Comox many times before I decided to retire here.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Jen

Jen.

Courtenay

Manager and bookkeeper · Beekeeper · Animal lover · Born and raised in Courtenay

FromBorn and raised in Courtenay

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Laura

Laura.

Cumberland

Cofounder of Cumberland Filmmakers

FromI moved to the Island in 2014 from Ottawa, ON. But I was born in Hamilton, ON. I packed two suitcases and moved out here following a couple friends at the time.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Vicki

Vicki.

Courtenay

Non Profit

FromMy children, their dad and I moved here from Halifax to open a business

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Jen

Jen.

Courtenay

BC Government supervisor · Fitness lover · Came from Vancouver 4 years ago for a simpler life

FromVancouver 4yrs ago…wanted a simpler life next to nature

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Sonja

Sonja.

Courtenay

Hypnotherapist

FromFrom Alberta, I vacationed in Parksville for 25 years and fell in love with the area. I knew I would live here one day.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Christine

Christine.

Other

Human Resources and Non Profit

FromI grew up in Sayward and family brought me to Royston

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Barbara

Barbara.

Other

Former lawyer, current full time mom

FromFrom Kamloops, moving to the Valley in June

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Maggi

Maggi.

Courtenay

Reiki Master

FromPowell River… the walking & family

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Alice

Alice.

Cumberland

I am an Emotional Freedom Techniques Practitioner. (EFT Tapping).

FromI grew up in Toronto and came to BC in 1979, for the first time! Mountains, the Ocean and rural living were my initial attractions

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Charlene

Charlene.

Comox

Librarian

Fromcame from Ontario

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Audrey

Audrey.

Comox

Sea Kayaking Guide

FromFrance/Seattle, chose to live here because of the endless possibilities for outdoor activities, and food farming community

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Chad

Chad.

Courtenay

education

FromAll over, but raised in Vancouver

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Wendy

Wendy.

Courtenay

Non Profit

FromThat's a long story! Originally from Toronto, came to Vancouver for a Master's Degree, then moved to the Comox Valley in 2005. We came for a few reasons but notably: access to the outdoors and thought it would be a wonderful place to raise a family.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Mya

Mya.

Courtenay

Marketing and Communications in the arts

FromGrew up here, moved away for school and came back for the community and beauty.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Penny

Penny.

Courtenay

Osteopathic manual practitioner · Nature lover · Artist · From England via Ontario · Needed out of southern Ontario

FromEngland then Ontario and now the valley. I needed to get out of southern Ontario

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Tara

Tara.

Courtenay

A private practice counsellor & working artist (writer, performer, songwriter, musician, singer)

FromBella Coola via Halifax

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Cheryl

Cheryl.

Comox

Parent, (unpaid) , Registered Psychiatric Nurse (paid)

FromMoved here from Vancouver via Cranbrook for 6 years! Origionally from Saskatchew

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Beverly-Ann

Beverly-Ann.

Other

Retired long term health care provider

FromMoved here in 1985

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Sarah

Sarah.

Other

Social media strategist and photographer/content creator

FromCalgary

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Naomi

Naomi.

Comox

Bookkeeper

FromI have lived in many parts of BC, family brought to the Comox Valley

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Sweta

Sweta.

Comox

BC Public Service

FromOriginally from India, moved to North America in 2000 and to Canada in 2009. Moved to the Valley in 2020 to be closer to my partner’s family while raising our son together.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Cathi

Cathi.

Courtenay

Therapeutic Recreation

Fromborn in Victoria. Came to the CV in 1998 after graduating from UVic, thought my career chances were better in a smaller city

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Lisa

Lisa.

Other

Actor, weaver, voice teacher, yoga, meditation guide, Expressive Arts Therapist.

FromLand. Quiet living.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Arella

Arella.

Cumberland

I'm a counsellor just about to start my own practice and I answered crisis/suicide prevention lines for four years before this

FromI'm from Nanaimo originally by way of Vancouver. I wanted to have it all :-D Forests in my backyard, ample art/music opportunities, small vibrant community...Cumberland is a dream come true!

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Kristine

Kristine.

Comox

Supervisor at resort cleaning and cleaning at seniors village

FromOkanagan and parents.mpved here when I was young

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Suzanne

Suzanne.

Courtenay

I am a Family Mediator

FromCame from Victoria for my job

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Wendy

Wendy.

Courtenay

Care aide and LPN student · Hiker · Community grower · From Powell River · Came because of her mum

FromPowell River. My mom when I was a kid

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Jenni

Jenni.

Courtenay

Nursing Unit Assistant

FromLived here most of my life

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Nina

Nina.

Comox

I co-own an HR consulting company

FromIn Canada for 23 years (mostly around Vancouver) but originally from Germany. New to the Valley. Simply wanted to get out of the big city.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

lauralynn

lauralynn.

Comox

Admin assistance / project work in the healthcare arena

Frommoved here from Saanichton for a job after a covid layoff...

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Donna

Donna.

Comox

teacher, counsellor, academic, researcher.

FromI'm from Calgary. Came here to retire because I loved the beauty, the place, the recreational and spiritual opportunities.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Kazimea

Kazimea.

Courtenay

Counsellor and Creative Arts Therapist

FromBorn in Edmonton, lived in Sointula, Victoria and Montreal. This was /is the right size of town for me, on the beautiful west coast.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Darlene

Darlene.

Comox

Just getting back into Real Estate after years of teaching fitness

FromYukon. It's a story best shared over a cup of coffee

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Amanda

Amanda.

Comox

Own a marketing and web dev agency

FromMoved here in 2007 to be near family after living in California for 15 years.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Marusha

Marusha.

Comox

Former lawyer, former film professional - visual effects producer, current artist and various freelance contract work.

FromBorn & Raised in Edmonton, after UBC based in Vancouver all my adult life except for 7 years in Australia. Always wanted to live in the Comox Valley area - finally moved in 2021.

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Linda

Linda.

Comox

Now artist/retired. Former farmer and executive.

FromOtter Point,BC. Moved to be close to our son and grandkids

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Sarah

Sarah.

Other

End of life care. Bartender. Homeschooling at at home homesteading mom.

FromBorn in Montreal. Raised in Cumberland

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Katey

Katey.

Courtenay

Office administration, and bookkeeping on the side

FromI grew up in Alberta, moved to Vancouver at 17, then to a ski hill near Radium, and then spent 3.5 years in New Zealand. I moved to the valley to be closer to family and put down roots

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Andie

Andie.

Cumberland

I write eco-fantasy, using climate science as the world-building for my magical characters. I'm in the middle of writing book four in the series.

FromI'm originally from Bermuda, and my husband is from Ontario. We were living in Colorado and wanted to get out of the US, looking for Nature, biking, hiking, the ocean, and a laid-back vibe.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Kelley

Kelley.

Courtenay

Long Term Care

FromMaple Ridge by way of Vancouver by way of Nashville, TN

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Catie

Catie.

Courtenay

Stay at Home Mom/Artist

FromI was born and raised in the Comox Valley

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Elaine

Elaine.

Comox

Optometrist

FromLived here for 35 years. Chose it because of proximity to mountains and ocean

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Barb

Barb.

Comox

Formerly school ground greening and community green space restoration , recently equine facilitated wellness then hit by long covid and life stopped.

FromWinnipeg

Preferred Coffee Shop

The Mill

Melisa

Melisa.

Other

So Many Things

FromI grew up in Ontario. Moved to Vancouver in 2019, always rented. My hubs and I met in Vancouver and bought our property here in 2023 to build something sustainable / long term

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

Lauri

Lauri.

Courtenay

Childcare

FromMoved to the Comox Valley when I was 10 years old. Grew up in Black Creek and have lived and worked here most of my adult life.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

Joanna

Joanna.

Courtenay

Social work/ counselling

FromIm from Calgary but was living in Prince George before moving here

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

The Experience

How it Works.

Create your profile, tell us a little about yourself and who you’d love to meet. We’ll thoughtfully match you with 10 locals for coffee & conversation. Some matches will make perfect sense. Others won’t… until they do. You have the year to meet all 10. ☕️

Your Coffee Journey
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Annie

Annie.

Courtenay

counselor/facilitator

FromQuadra/Cortes

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

✓ Complete
Bryce

Bryce.

Courtenay

Addictions treatment center counsellor (government-run, Whitehorse)

FromI'm from the island but was living in Whitehorse over the last decade. I ended up here by accident but I love it. I stayed for the proximity to ocean and mountain adventure settings.

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

◐ In progress
Sarah

Sarah.

Cumberland

Sweet Salvage Consignment

FromI came from Canmore and have been in the valley for 10 years

Preferred Coffee Shop

Laneway

◐ In progress
John

John.

Courtenay

Choir director, university prof

FromEdmonton, choir music

Preferred Coffee Shop

Mudsharks

★ Newest Match
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In their own words

Why locals are saying yes ☕️

Real quotes from locals when we asked them why they joined.

  • I miss the good old-fashioned way of meeting people.
  • I realized I know lots of people through responsibility… but not enough through joy.
  • I think modern life desperately needs more random human interaction.
  • Everybody becomes interesting if you talk long enough.
  • I think adults secretly need friendship more than we admit.
  • People are starving for real-life connection.
8 promises

Our promise

8 things you can count on.

  • 01

    We’ll make your world bigger

    Meet 10 people from different towns, industries, ages, cultures, generations and walks of life—all living here in the Comox Valley.

  • 02

    One Thoughtful Match at a Time

    We introduce you to one person at a time and invite you to meet for a one-hour, face-to-face coffee and conversation.

  • 03

    Discover the Locals Around You

    Hear the stories of people you may have passed at the grocery store, stood beside in a coffee shop or lived down the road from—but might never otherwise have met.

  • 04

    Practise the Art of Conversation

    Strengthen your curiosity, listening and empathy—and rediscover how good it feels to have a meaningful conversation with someone new.

  • 05

    Experience the Valley Through New Eyes

    Discover different perspectives, local places, ideas and possibilities through the people who share this place with you.

  • 06

    Expand Your Sense of Community

    Build genuine connections beyond your existing friends, family, workplace and social circles.

  • 07

    Fill Up Your Human Tank

    Enjoy 10 real, face-to-face conversations throughout the year—each one offering something you could not have discovered alone.

  • 08

    Your Only Job Is to Show Up

    Be curious. Share a little of your story. Listen to theirs. There is no expectation beyond that.

Personal Guarantee: Go on all 10 coffees. Give all 10 people a chance. If you finish the experience and don’t believe your life became $100 more valuable, we’ll give you your money back. No questions asked. ☕️

Questions from the community

Frequently asked questions.

Feel free to send any questions you have that are answered here and we will add them.

In the wild press & media

As seen & heard locally.

(*) Apparently, word travels fast in a small town. We've already been asked three times to share the story on local radio, podcasts, and media. Turns out the Valley really likes the idea of strangers becoming neighbours again. We love that.

THE PITCH, ONE LAST TIME ☕️

10 locals. 10 coffees.
10 conversations.

What do you have to lose besides time spent with community?

Join the Community Experiment $100 for 10 thoughtful locals.